YOU!!!!

You...
The one person I can always talk to,
The one person who understands.
For making me laugh in the rain,
For helping me shoulder my troubles.

You...
For loving me in spite of myself,
And always putting me back on my feet again.
For giving me someone to believe in,
Someone who lets me me know
That there really is goodness, kindness,
Laughter and love in the world.

You...
For being one of the best parts of my life,
And proving it to me over and over again.

You....
I thank you..
For bringing me happiness
As though it were a gift
that I could open everyday.

You....
I appreciate you...

For listening to the words
I want to say.

I am grateful to you

For letting me share the most

Personal parts of your world,
And for welcoming me with your heart.

You...                                       

I admire you...
For being the wonderful, kind, giving,
Loving person you are.

I thank you with all my heart...
For being everything you are to me,
And for doing it so beautifully in my life.

WHAT IS LOVE???

What is love?
You'll be glad to know
Is the chance for two hearts?
To share and to grow
Trust, compassion, and a listening ear,
Will dispel all your doubts cast out all your fears.

What is love?

It's simple you see,
It's essential as air,
For our souls to breathe
It replenishes your faith, and self- esteem,
Allowing you to fulfill all of your dreams

What is Love?

Love is to share life together

To build special plans just for two
To work side by side
And then smile with pride
As one by one, dreams all come true....

What is Love?

Love is to help and encourage
With smiles and sincere words of praise
To take time to share
To listen and care
In tender, affectionate ways.

What is Love?

Love is to have someone special
One who you can always depend
To be there through the years
Sharing laughter and tears
As a partner, a lover, a friend.

What is Love?

Love is to make special memories

Of moments you love to recall

Of all the good things

That sharing life brings

Love is the greatest of all.

I've learned the full meaning
Of sharing and caring
And having my dreams all come true
I've learned the full meaning
Of being in love
By being and loving with you.

When is it love?

Your heart will know,
What you should do,
And where you should go
It will guide your path, straight and true,
Be prepared for love, when it come calling for you."

You are always in my Heart....

My heart is where you live
Making it a home for you and me
The whispers laugh at our silent moments
Drifting us away from the world to see.....

Seas of happiness confine us within every dream.
All night, hand in hand we chatter
Sharing smiles, tears, fears and laughter
Love in our hearts, twinkling in our eyes.....

We dwell in a heaven of happy surprise
Your dreams in my eyes
Your love in my heart
Your smile on my lips...

Your eyes in my eyes
Your heart beating in mine
In your hands, my hands
In your breath, I breathe.....

I don't care what year is it
With you its a time standing still
My life is with you
Every day and every dream....

As we move together
Waking up from ages
I find you waiting for me
And you find me ......

Changing worlds as we are born
I wait for you, every dawn
Some lives we steal for our own
And promise togetherness before gone....

An Open Letter to My One and Only Love...

I want to take the time to tell you how very important you are in my life. 

You are the most significant person in my life right now and for always.  You are my dearest, the one person I can open and and honest with, the person who knows me better than I know myself.  When I’m with you, I can be myself, with no pretense, and I’m accepted and loved completely for who I am. I know who you are, and you know who I am and we are able to love one another completely.

We aren’t always able to spend as much time together as we’d like to but when we are together, it’s as if we own the world. 

Being with you makes me laugh, and gives me a safe place to cry.  I love you for being the wonderful person that you are and for the beauty you bring into my life by being there.  I love you for listening to all my troubles and for sharing yours with me, I love you for acceptance of me, even when you don't agree with my action sometimes.  I love you for the fun we have together and the openness that characterizes our togetherness. 

I love you with all my heart, I cherish every moment we spend together.  Tonight as I write this letter, it's like you are right here with me. I feel your hand on my shoulder, your fingers in my hair, and the soft breath of your kiss on my cheek.

The day we met is a day I will never ever forget. I have never been so happy since they day I found you.

You are my best friend, my one true love, my one and only. I love you more today than I did yesterday, and I'll love you more tomorrow than I do today.

If I had to count the ways I love you, the numbers would stretch around this world but never end. If I had to speak or write or to explain my love for you, my voice would grow hoarse trying, my hand become numb, and my mind frustrated with its inadequacies.

But one of the miracles of this love I have for you is that it needs no counting, no explanations, no play of eloquent words.

What counts is that you know it exists, that it lives without explanation even we are apart, temporarily distracted, or silent.
That when I say " I love you, " it is sincere straight from the heart. the kind that will not end.

I love you...

One quality of our relationship that I deeply cherish is our natural ability to enjoy and appreciate  the time we have to spend with one another.
When you are present, the fun and happy moments come so freely, because we are never trying to force an emotion.

When you are absent, I cannot help but miss you, yet the quality of our time spent together leaves me feeling warm, happy, and content.
For all the times we have, please continue to be yourself, because that is the person I admire, respect and love, for yesterday, today, and tomorrow, and the time we spend together means everything to me.

With us, the ordinary times turn into great times, And simple conversations turn into honest, trusting talks.
With us, so much is understood, so much is everything it should be and more.
For us, laughter is natural and easy, sentiment is shared,
Hard times are softened, and the more often I think about you, the more wonderful I realize you are.

Whether I am alone, or we are chatting or we are talking on the phone, I know how much we both care and I cherish knowing that it will always be that way. You are very important to me, and you always will be.

I Love You ….You give my life meaning and a new direction to soar… my whole world has changed because of you… my spirit has come to life, my heart has someone special to love. God knew that you were just what I needed to make my life complete. 

It doesn’t matter who loves who more. It’s like God put you here just to love me and I was made to love you…I think I’m the luckiest person to find someone like you that can love me the way you do..I know I don’t make it easy for you and you are do the same..but in the end, I am so happy you are in my life. 

Only you and I can understand what is going on inside, we are two crazy passionate lovers living in a crazy and passionate world .

How simple my life is now you are here, How I cherish each breath.
How I crave the light and laughter you have brought me. 

I have fallen in love without taking a step, Fallen into the sweetest of dreams, how I hope no one wakes me. The simplest gesture wraps itself around my heart, where I will hold it forever. Each time we say bye ending our chat,  a part of me weeps, Though I know it is not forever,  to my aching soul it is an eternity.

How sweet life is to be yours; How meaningless life is without you. They know nothing of the loneliness before you.  Nothing of the empty tears I cried day after day.  How did you do it, I ask myself. How did you banish the fear, the darkness? You have made me see that nothing is that bad, That I am strong and worthy of happiness, You have saved me from myself. Everyday I wake up and smile to myself knowing you are there for me.  How would I go on if you were not there to hold me up. To bless me with your love and light. How I am glad you have found me.  My life is now complete...

We've been thru so many ups and down, so many rough and smooth roads. But still, we manage to be together. And one thing I'm sure, my heart still beats faster when you're around.  I may not know what you truly feels, but I am sure in my heart I will love you as long as I can and as long as you want me to stay.

Whenever I miss you and feel like as if I have lost you, something strange happens… you suddenly appears and makes me melt in your arms…. you fill me with your love… your voice echoes in my mind,  all my worries fade away when we are together…. I have faith that you will never leave me alone, and you will always be with me… I believe whether I can see you or not, you are always there for me…. to catch me… to hold me.. and to be my strength… I love you.

When you honestly love someone,you will never get tired of them. You never get tired of showing them you care by your little sweetness. You never get tired of holding their hands to secure their feelings. You never get tired of showing your affection. You never get tired of listening to them and understanding their short comings.

Fifteen months going on sixteen of togetherness is very rare on this kind of relationship we have.

Do I get jealous?  Yes.  Do I cry randomly?  Yes.  Do I get angry?  Yes. Do I fight?  Yes. Do I need a daily hug? Yes...Because I'm only human..

I wanna thank you for being  in my life. Although there are times when I feel that you don’t even care about my existence and  then there are days when you don’t even bother to call me or sent me a  message and I feel like a complete stranger in your life. Nevertheless my trust and respect to you never lessen.

Thank you for the moments that keeping us stronger, thank you for giving me the chance to know that I can. Thank you for the chances you're giving me to show you how much I care and thank you for giving us the chance, even in limited time, that we have each other. 

Every moment with you is like heaven. Your voice is my strength. I love you.

The day you came into my life everything changed; you brought happiness, you brought hope, you brought contentment. And most of all, you brought love; a love so amazing, a love so powerful, a love too beautiful to ever be defined.

There is no recipe for a perfect relationship but we can enhance it with simple gestures that mean so much to a loving heart; a kiss and a hug,  a text in the middle of the day that reads “I miss you” and the promise that we will make each other a priority when we are together.

I know I may not always say the right thing at just the right time.  I sometimes make mistakes. I do not want to change you... I love you just the way you are.  I hope you know that no matter what life has in store for us, I will always be here for you.

We have grown more closer  and I hope the future will only get better for us.
You mean more to me than anything.  I want to do everything I know to protect our relationship. 

I just want you to know that I'm thankful that you came into my life and I will always love you. My love for you will never fade, I’m still crazy about you.

I pray that God always keeps blessing you to fulfill all your dreams and fill your life with never-ending happiness. I never want to see you sad. I love you so much and I can do whatever it takes to make you happy. Most of all,  I will never be a hindrance to your complete happiness.

Always remember I love you and thank you so much for everything.  You will always be here in my heart no matter what and wherever this togetherness lead us. Thank you, thank you, thank you... I love u...I love u.. I love u...

    

Choices in Life....

Life can make choices for us.

Sometimes these choices

Seem unfair

And make us unhappy if we let them.

But in the end we control our own destiny

Because we can decide how we are going to allow

People or events to affect us.

So much of our happiness, and unhappiness,

Lies within the choices we make.

We can accept that life isn’t the way we want it to be,

Or we can work to change it so it will be.

We can walk through the shadows,

Or we can choose to smile

And to seek out the sunlight.

We can create grand dreams

That never leave the ground,

Or we can be builders of dreams that touch the sky.

We can look at only

The negative aspects of ourselves,

Or we can lift ourselves up

By being our own best friend.

We can live in the past

Or dream about the future,

Or we can live for today.

We can give up when the road becomes difficult,

Or we can keep on going

Until the view is much better.

The choices in life are endless,

And so is the potential for happiness…….

Holding on till the end.......

And no matter how difficult it can be ...

Love always finds a way to bring together those who love true

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When you are sad, I will dry your tears
When you are scared, I will comfort your fears.

When you need love, my heart I will share
When you are sick, for you I will care.

You will feel my love when we are apart
Knowing that nothing will change my heart.

When you are worried, I will give you hope
When you are confused, I will help you cope.

When you are lost, and can't see the light
My love will be a beacon, shining ever so bright.

This is my vow, one that I pledge till the end
For you above all are my Love and best friend

These words I have written, speak of my love for you 

From my lips these words spoken, shall always ring true.

God has blessed me, and with your hand in mine 

Both of our hearts, will forever intertwine.

Into all lives falls pain and sorrows,
I promise together, we will meet all tomorrows.

Together, you and I, together as one,
Your heart and mine, united as one.

Love is....

True love is rare... And it's the only thing...
That gives life real meaning..

To love is to place the needs of others above our own needs, without it we diminish. 
True love does not fit into little souls.
Love is something that should enrich us as human beings.
Love always brings, never takes, never fakes.
Love is "despite."
Despite not being reciprocated, keep loving, not as a burden but as a complement of survival.
Despite suffering,  because suffering love is a thousand times better than suffering from emptiness and loneliness.
Despite difficulties, because these can motivate us to be stronger and teach us that we can overcome obstacles.
While away, because when we love the heart is always near.
Loving is, when necessary, give yourself the right to feel angry and hurt, because love is divine, is human too. 
But love is to be more than angers and hurts.
To love is to put heart in everything we do: the eyes, the hands, in our actions. 
You see a different one even if it is equal to everyone, is to see it especially if it is different.
To love is to settle for a little happiness when that's all we have.
To love is to believe when all doubt. It is the voice of the heart when no one else can hear.
Love is finally giving free will to the heart.......

Internet or Online Relationship

Can Internet Relationships Work?

This is the big question for everyone involved in online dating. While there are some disadvantages to Internet relationships, there are some good things as well.

Internet relationships can work if the couple is committed to making it work. An internet relationship is nearly identical to a long distance relationship and there are many couples whom are proof that love can overcome the distance.  If you think you have found a great person online, the hardship of having an Internet relationship may be worth it.

How to Make Internet Relationship Work

There are a few things that couples can do to help their Internet relationships succeed.

Communication

All relationships need communication in order to last. This is especially true for Internet relationships. In fact, communication is all that some Internet couples have since they are unable to spend time together in-person like traditional couples.

The great thing about this, however, is that the couple will quickly determine if they enjoy talking together. On a normal date, you may be blind to the lack of intellectual and emotional compatibility if you are physically attracted to your partner. When all you can do with each other is talk, you'll know for certain if the two of you share a connection.

This creates a communication and emotional base to the relationship that can be lacking from traditional relationships. If the two of you transition from Internet to in-person couple, you'll have the potential to be a very emotionally connected couple.

Use the Phone

Since Internet couples often start communicating by e-mail and instant messages, there is a tendency to continue relying on these communication methods. Writing to each other has its place, but you'll enjoy the relationship more if you use the phone as well. Hearing each other's voice just can't be replaced by typing emoticons.

To avoid long distance phone bills or to save your wireless minutes, consider using Internet voice technologies. Services such as  Skype allow you to talk over the Internet using your high-speed connection. You can talk for hours without having to worry about the bill.

Meet in Person

While the phone is an improvement over e-mail and instant messaging, nothing can match spending time together in person. If you haven't met each other yet, begin making plans to do so. Some couples don't consider their relationship official until they verify in-person chemistry. Chances are the chemistry you have on the Internet and over the phone will continue when you meet, but you can't be absolutely sure until you are standing next to each other.

After you meet for the first time, begin making plans for a second visit, if the first meeting went well. The time between visits can be hard to endure, especially if you are in love. However, having an upcoming date on the calendar will give you something tangible to hold onto and look forward to in-between visits.

Honesty

Everyone you date deserves your honesty, but Internet relationships are overly dependent upon honesty. An Internet relationship is not for everyone. If you find that you can't endure the separation or are tired of being limited to phone and e-mail conversations, be honest about it. There is no sense continuing any relationship if your heart is not in it.

Trust

Along with honesty is the need for trust. Since you are not physically near each other in an Internet relationship, it can be difficult to know exactly what the other person is doing with his or her spare time. This easily allows suspicion to enter the relationship. If you can't trust that your Internet partner isn't also dating someone else, then your Internet relationship is doomed to fail.

Internet Relationship Endgame

Assuming the goal of your Internet relationship is to eventually have a traditional, in-person relationship, then at some point you'll need to discuss how to make this happen. When to talk about this is a sensitive matter. If you talk about it too soon, you may scare off the other person. If you wait too long, your date may become anxious and want to end the relationship.

For every couple the timing is different, but at some point, you need to discuss how, and possibly, when, the two of you can finally be together.

Conclusion

Can Internet relationships work?  Of course they can. For a couple that is interested in each other and wants to see where the relationship goes, the Internet should  be seen as a means of communication instead of the definition of their relationship. 

Tips for making Internet Relationship Easier

1.  Keep in touch, whether via phone, email, text/msg or Skype.

2.  Be open and honest with each other.  It wont be easy but this isn't the time 

     "Fake it until you make it"

3.  Make time just for the two of you when you are together.

4.  Remember to make kind gestures for each other.

To all men...

Dear Men…

You don’t deserve a woman’s heart if you can’t treat her heart like your own and save it from breaking into pieces. You don’t deserve a woman’s soul if you can’t honor it and touch it with your soulful love. You don’t deserve a woman’s body if you cant respect it and save it from physical abuse. You don’t deserve a woman’s time and attention if you can’t be with her when she needs you. You don’t deserve a woman’s love if you cannot reciprocate her love. Don’t expect her to stick to you all the time and keep running back in your arms when you are not making a single effort to make your relationship work…

All said and done …if a man says that he loves a woman then he needs to make her believe that he is genuine and not a fake and that he will not leave her heart broken and shattered. He needs to make her feel that he cares for her and she is the only woman in his life and that he not playing with her feelings. Every woman wants a man with whom she can have an honest, strong and a transparent relationship. She wants a man whom she can trust and who can make her feel special and feel loved....

You can date as many women as you want…No one is stopping you from having as many girlfriends as you want..You have an entire lifetime.…BUT DO IT ONE AT A TIME.. When you are in a relationship with one woman let her be the only one and be loyal to her. We know this world is a tempting place and there are plenty of woman around but at least don’t cheat when you are in a relationship. Be a man and stick to one woman at a time ..Don’t try to grab women like they are a species on a verge of extinction…Don’t take relationships as a joke.. Only cowards do that… 

A tribute to a Man's best friend....

Joy

Fiona

"Man's best friend" is a phrase referring to domestic dogs, highlighting their close relations, loyalty, and companionship with humans within many societies.

DOG - It seems that nature has given the dog to man for his defense and for his pleasure. Of all the animals it is the most faithful : it is the best friend man can have.

Scientists found that dogs use similar brain mechanisms to humans to process social information.
They found canines’ brains are sensitive to acoustic cues of emotion, just like humans

Dogs. There’s a reason we call them man’s best friend. We can learn so many things from a dog’s behavior, personality, demeanor, resiliency, and most importantly, the willingness to provide their family members with unconditional love, loyalty, and companionship down to their very last breath.

You come in the door from a long day’s work.  The dog doesn’t judge you; he doesn’t care how you’re dressed or if you’ve just had a really bad day. No matter the situation, your dog is happy to see you. You are greeted with the same enthusiasm each and every time you walk in that door. A dog has the ability to live in the present moment. They don’t regret the past or worry about the future. If we can learn to appreciate and focus on what’s happening in the here and now, we’ll experience a richness of living.

In the presence of a dog, somehow, nothing else matters. A dog is handing out pure love, sparing no expense, and asking absolutely nothing in return. There’s consistency, love, and the beauty of life at its finest.

Dogs have the ability to sense what’s really going on. Many of us have lost touch with this all-important instinctual part of who we are. By paying attention to nonverbal cues such as body language and energy, we can learn more about our friends, our loved ones, and ourselves.
Dogs don’t hold grudges. There’s a remarkable lack of conflict in dog packs. That’s because members resolve the situation when disagreements arise, then move on. Imagine what our world would be like if we dealt with all conflicts before they escalated out of control. Holding onto negative feelings tends to make them multiply and prevent us from moving forward.

When dogs are bored, they develop issues ranging from anxiety to aggression. But when given a job and a way to contribute to the pack’s well-being, they turn around almost immediately. We all have an innate need to work for food and water. Ask yourself how you can contribute more to your job, your family, and the world around you. You’ll feel much better about yourself if you earn your food and water, too.

Each and every dog that I brought into my home was unique, had its very own personality, and affected my life profoundly. I’ve had some of the greatest relationships and life lessons learned with my dogs; Unconditional love, living in the moment, loyalty.

Sometimes, we get caught up in so many things, but you’re never lonely when there’s a dog around. When I need a good laugh or some therapy, I think about the times I’ve spent with my family, including my dogs because they were members of our family, and I laugh. They are so fun.

For a dog, every morning is Christmas morning. Every walk is the best walk, every meal is the best meal, and every game is the best game. We can learn so much by observing the way our pets rejoice in life’s simplest moments. Take time every day to celebrate the many gifts that are hidden in the ordinary events of your own life.

LOVE IS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL FEELING

When you have a person who loves you
unconditionally, passionately, and without judgment
When you have someone who treats you
with respect, understanding, and support
there is nothing more fulfilling, uplifting, and beautiful.

Love is the momentous thrust that can cause you
to reach your goals
It is the one force that will give life meaning
when nothing else makes sense
It is the thread of peace and security
in a world of odds
It can make you feel like the most important person
on earth in a world of billions of people

It is the emotion that wakes your senses
to see the beauty of the sun setting,
the flowers blooming, the snow melting
It is the feeling behind all tears and laughter
Love is the most beautiful feeling of all

What's in my Heart?

What's in my Heart?
Love, what else is there?
An unexplainable feeling no one can understand...
My heart beats just for love ... Different kinds of love ...
My heart is full of life for my precious kids, my special love, family and friends...
It contains every happiness and goodness my life went through...
It once kept all the aches and tears that I hid before, till I let go of hatred and hurt 
and kept only love within...
Now, what's in my heart today?
A hidden tear... hurtful feeling that only I can understand...
Like a squeezing lemon, dropping its juice...
Like an unhealed wound bleeding continuously..
Like a fearful child hiding under the bed, afraid to see the light..
Like a lighted candle slowly melting with fire...
What's in my heart today?
Only I can tell..
Because no one will ever understand ...

You Made Me Live Again

You brought happiness into my lonely heart

You brought emotions alive again

You were not prepared what we were to start

You were not ready for what was to begin

You saw my pain and my sorrow

You made me look forward to another tomorrow

You made me laugh and you made me cry

But most of all you made me feel alive

I was down and out and feeling so low

You took my hand and eased my mind
I was astray you showed me the way
And now I finally found my home in you

I still recall the times I've been through
Confused and I didn't know what to do
I almost gave up but you gave me hope
You've made me strong as the days went on
You made me live again

I was lost in the dark
With my lonely, broken heart
Then you came along
You took me home
And made me your own

You were always there to lend a helping hand
When good friends were hard to find
When things went wrong you made them right
You've made my days so bright
You made me live again

Now look at me
Yes, a different me
Back on my feet again
I'm not afraid to face the world again
'Cause you taught me how to be strong
You made me live again

Till I Met You

When Two Hearts are Meant for Each Other,
No Distance in Relationship is Too Far,
No Time is Too Long,
And No Other Love can Break Them Apart

A song dedicated just for you.....

I never dreamed
Cause I always thought that dreaming was for kids
Just a childish thing
And I could swear
Love was just a game that children play
And no more than a game

'Til I met you
I never knew what love was
'Til I met you
This feeling seems to grow more every day
I love you more each day

I believe you
I believe in every word that you say:
I love you all the way
Now I can swear
Love is not a game that children play
So tell me that you'll stay

'Til I met you
I never knew what love was
'Til I met you
This feeling seems to grow more every day
I love you more each day
Each day

You and I should be together
Can't you see?
Can't you see?

'Til I met you
I never knew what love was
'Til I met you
This feeling seems to grow more
Every day
I love you more each day
Each day...

'Til I met you
Oh, I never knew what love was
'Til I met you
This feeling seems to grow more
Every day
I love you more each day
Each day

'Til I met you...

Till I met you...

Smile

Just live life where it takes you.... 
Stand up when you stumble...
Walk slowly if you must but run like a zebra when you need to ...
It's alright to look forward but never expect too much....
Cry when you need to cry but never let any situation leave you depressed...
Move forward but don't forget to be grateful for the people who lent a hand for you...
Always smile ... leave a mark behind every step you make...
Be an inspiration to others...
Whatever life gives you, give your best to be a better and loving person...
Always share whatever you could give to the poorest of all...
When you love, give unconditional love...
Like a mother to her children, like how our Creator loves us,,,
When you are being tempted by the devil, just close your eyes and ask for the Lord's

guidance before you reach a decision...
Never look down to the lowly and poor...

Remember life is like a wheel and it turns round like a clock..
Never expect too much from someone or in a situation....
Too much expectation will lead to depression and sadness when failed...
Just keep the faith in your heart ...
Always be grateful.and humble whether big or small thing come your way...
Life is a journey. ...
Enjoy the ride while it lasts...
Coz in reality .... we only have one opportunity to be this journey....
Smile and be grateful.