Monday, March 23, 2015

When is the time to let go??????





It's really painful  to say goodbye to someone that you don't want to let go of, but it's even more painful to hold on to them if they never wanted to stay in the first place. If someone doesn't show you the same love you show them, and acts as if you are unimportant most of the time, this may be a big clue as to the fact that you don't need them in your life either. The only people you truly need in your life are those who respect you and want you to be in theirs.


IT'S TIME TO LET GO.....
LET IT GO... Because you can give, try, hurt, cry, believe, pray, meditate, explain, beg, ask, apologize, work harder, pray harder, work more, love more, but you can NOT please everybody.
Your LOVE is not a toy to be played with. Don't ever think someone will "love you back" just because you "love them so much." Your SO MUCH will be rewarded with SO LITTLE because you poured TOO MUCH into the WRONG ONE!!
LET IT GO... Your HAPPINESS is not meant to be shared with everybody. Your JOY is not meant to be shared with everybody. YOUR DREAMS are not meant to be shared with everybody.
LET IT GO... Just because you LOVE someone doesn't mean you LOVE the headache, heartache and pain they bring to you. You don't need to strap yourself to someone's torture chamber to "prove" how much you love them.
LET IT GO.. Some people are completely BLINDFOLDED to love - they will never be able to see YOU or your LOVE with 20/20 vision.  You can't give them "see" how much you do for them, how much you "love" for them because they don't know how to SEE.
LET IT GO... You don't have to "endure" pain to be loved. LOVE gives... PAIN is selfish... You can't LOVE someone enough to make them stop hurting you.. You can't LOVE someone enough to make them understand you. You can't LOVE someone enough to make them love you back.
The fact is - the more you love them, the HARDER it is for them to love you back. It's like counting to 100 with a person who can only count to 10. They will never be able to understand your 110% because they can't get past 10%...
And you can't MAKE anyone GROW or GO where you're going.
There is no WARRANTY on LOVE... Some things have to be accepted AS IS...
You don't need to BUILD love from the ground up. And you certainly don't need to INVENT it.
You don't have ENOUGH TIME,  enough LIFE , and enough LOVE to FIX or FORCE anybody or anything to stay in your life... So if you've done everything, you've tried everything, you've cried, you've tried, you've worked harder, you've prayed, you've given all of yourself and you know it's time...
LET IT GO......
PAIN is contagious.
Part of your PAIN is to get you to REALIZE you don't need to STAY where you're at.. It's time to let go..
Don't let someone's dissatisfaction turn into a deadly poison that ruins your chances of success, robs you of happiness and chokes your freedom. Get what you deserve. You deserve RECIPROCATION... You deserve APPRECIATION. You deserve to be LOVED for all that you are, all that you're not, and all that you aspire to be.
YOU.... need to take the BLINDFOLD off yourself to see that. LET IT GO so you can GROW where you need to GROW and GO where you need to GO. But staying here will never get you there..... 
LET IT GO.....


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